2025 UK cancer numbers...

Over 392,000 new cancer cases are diagnosed every year!

Every 90 seconds, someone is told is they have a cancer!

Sadly, 167,000 plus people die from cancer every year!

Some 3.5+ million people are living with cancer!
Source: Macmillan
5 top of mind FAQs...

The UK's Top 4 Cancers
The UK's top 4 UK cancers account for over 53% of all new diagnosed cancer cases!

#1
Breast
Every year some 55,000+ woman and 400+ men are diagnosed with breast cancer.
About 11,400 women and 85 men die from breast cancer each year (some 32 deaths / day).
Breast cancer is the 2nd most common cause of cancer death in women and accounts for about 15% of all female cancer deaths.

#2
Prostate
Every year over 52,000 men get this diagnosis.
About 12,000 men die from prostate cancer each year (some 33 deaths / day.)
Prostate cancer is the 2nd most common cause of cancer death in men in the UK, accounting for about 14% of all cancer deaths in males.

#3
Bowel
For the 1st time this century, more people were diagnosed with bowel cancer (42,000) than lung cancer (40,000).
About 16,800 people die from bowel cancer each year (some 46 deaths / day).
Bowel cancer is the 2nd most common cause of cancer death in the UK, accounting for about 10% of all cancer deaths.

#4
Lung
Every year about 40,000 people are diagnosed with lung cancer. 72% of lung cancer cases in the UK are caused by smoking.
About 34,800 people die from lung cancer each year (some 95 deaths / day).
Lung cancer is the most common cause of cancer death in the UK, accounting for about 21% of all cancer deaths.
Does knowledge help or scare?
The 4 stages of cancer...
Ignore symptoms, such as blood in your phlegm, wee, poo, etc., at your peril. Finding unexplained lumps where they don't belong should also raise alarm bells. The longer you do nothings and ignore the symptoms, the higher the risk of getting to stage 3, or 4. Get beyond apathy, embarrassment, etc. and go get tested. Early detection and treatment is crucial for improving your survival rates. Regular screenings and awareness of symptoms can help catch cancer at an earlier, more treatable stage.
Stage 1

A cell becomes cancerous when it ignores its programming. It grows, becomes abnormal, and expands into nearby areas.
Stage 2

The abnormal cell replicates over and over, and becomes a tumour. The tumour crowds (bullies) out normal cells.
Stage 3

The tumour continues to grow and expand. It reaches your lymph nodes (kind of a superhighway to other organs)!
Stage 4

The cancer spreads to, and infects, other parts of your body. This primary cancer has now become a secondary cancer.
How cancer spreads...
Think of cancer as a bully. It invades nearby spaces, grows uncontrollably because it is rarely opposed and extends its territory in 3 ways:
- Cancer cells grow uncontrollably and kill nearby cells. They eventually spread to other close by organs.
- Cancer cells get into the into the lymph system spreading through lymph vessels to other parts of the body to form a “metastatic tumour” within another body organ such as the lungs, liver, the brain and even the bones.
- Cancer cells break away from the location of the primary tumour and form tumours in other parts or organs of the body by travelling through blood vessels.
Primary and Secondary Cancer...
Primary cancer refers to the location of original cancer. Breast cancer is cancer that starts in the breast, bowel cancer starts in the bowel, and so on. When a cancer spreads to other parts of the body it does not become a new cancer. So, if your bowel cancer spreads to your liver, it does not become liver cancer. It is still bowel cancer.
Secondary cancer is the same type of cancer as the original (primary) cancer - it has migrated to other parts of the body. The medical term used for this is metastatic (pronounced meta-static).
Metastatic cancer, in most cases, is NOT curable. Treatment can slow tumour growth and ease many of the symptoms. It's possible to live for several years with some types of cancer, even after metastasis.
Metastatic cancer has the same name as the primary cancer. For example, breast cancer that spreads to the lung is called metastatic breast cancer, not lung cancer. It is treated as stage 4 breast cancer, not as lung cancer.
Living with cancer...
When it's YOU...

There is no standard reaction when your oncologist looks you in the eye and tells you that you have a cancer. A variety of emotions will hit you. In many cases the first emotion to hit will be shock, quickly followed by disbelief, sadness, anger, fear, panic, depression, embarrassment and shame. Another issue faced by many is "How the hell do I tell my family?"
Many will withdraw, avoid family and friends and many experience a deep loneliness because they struggle to verbalise something that is just too damn hard to discuss.
All emotions are equally valid.
When it's NOT...

Even if you don't yet appreciate the severity of the situation, some really simple actions can make a world of difference to them. For example, drive them to the hospital, get their meds, shopping, etc., talk about last night’s big match, open a bottle of wine and just sit and gossip. Do anything that distracts their minds even for a short time. Give them a hug, give them a cuddle. Don’t underestimate the value of giving someone a good tight squeeze.
You don't need to understand the big or small issues of dealing with someone who has cancer, you just need to let them know you are there for them!
How will you react?
I'm a pessimist

I am going to die!
My life will be very difficult.
I'm going to lose all my hair.
These drugs will make me sick.
My family won't cope.
England won't win the world cup.
Shove your counselling.
I'm an optimist

I am going to live!
My life will be very different.
I don't need to pay for hair stylists.
These drugs will make me better.
My family will learn to cope.
England will win the world cup.
I'll try counselling.
Brits are big on being
private, embarrassed and sorry...

The Brits are often seen as reserved and unemotional. Your typical Brit will find it difficult (if not embarrassing) to openly discuss private matters. Certain topics, such as finances, relationships, sex, and health are considered taboo and are rarely discussed even with the closest of family and friends. When touchy subjects need to be discussed, the conversation typically opens with an apology of sorts "I hope you don't mind, but can I ask...".
Brits can be sorry on an hourly basis. Sorry for the weather, sorry for bumping into you, sorry for my kid's behaviour, the list goes on and on. When eating out, Brits will complain to each other about how bad the food is, but when asked by the server "How is everything?" they are often too embarrassed to complain and will simply say "It's all fine thank you".
Learning how to open up and have hard uncomfortable conversations is a hurdle that all those with cancer must learn to get past. There are many wonderful counselling services available to help, but here again the Brit mentality will find it embarrassing to firstly acknowledge that counselling is required, and secondly to admit that a counsellor has been engaged. To many, the need for counselling is seen both as a weakness and embarrassing.
When the topic is cancer, stuff like being private, sorry and embarrassed can result in delayed diagnosis, which can mean the difference between catching cancer at stage 1 or 2, rather than at stage 3 or 4. You really don't want to discover you have cancer when its at stage 4 (a secondary cancer).